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Working with Dreams Remember Your Dream Ask the Four Questions *
Are the people and places familiar to us from our waking lives, or are they unknown to us? (People known to us, but from the distant past, may be in a subjective dream. Famous people we know only from the media could appear in an objective dream.)
Is the dream showing us something we are missing in our conscious waking lives, or it is confirming something about which we are indecisive or have ambivalence? Confirmatory dreams tend to have us experiencing in the dream an emotion similar to that we have in waking life.
Transitory dreams tend to be more about a current or imminent experience—some situation. They tend to be somewhat less vague. Enduring dreams address long standing issues (such as a marriage of many years, a personality issue, etc.)
How are you reacting in the dream? Are you able to take action, or are you observing the action without directly impacting the course of events? * from Dream Thinking by Alan Quenk and Naomi Quenk (1995) |